Growing up, many things
influence your personal identity allowing it to ultimately develop and evolve.
Some of these influences include family, peers, religion, media, gender but
more relevantly, the society and culture that we are surrounded by.
I grew up living in the
Bankstown district where the population is predominantly of Middle-Eastern
background, like myself, so a large percentage of the people living there share
very similar cultures, traditions and behaviours. Even the local convenient
stores, restaurants/cafes and schools around Bankstown suburbs were and are
still centered around the Lebanese/Middle Eastern culture.
I attended a primary school
that was walking distance from home, so even up until this stage of my life, I
had never really socialized outside of these suburbs, and in turn, as I grew older and approached the end of my primary school years, I had
strongly adapted to the Middle Eastern culture and their everyday customs, beliefs, traditions and views.
However, I was educated in
a very diverse and multicultural all girls Catholic secondary school, St
Ursula’s College, Kingsgrove. So not surprisingly, when I attended high school I
experienced a little bit of a culture shock where the students were far more
diverse by race, culture, ethnicity and language.
There were times were I
felt some of my teachers failed to understand and appreciate my culture and
background, as well as the cultural differences between the students in the
classroom. This may have been through for example, the selection of books that
were chosen to teach certain concepts. I felt like this may have resulted in a
poor learning environment for me because not all cultures were addressed,
including my own. Then as high school progressed, I remember starting to wonder
if maybe it was me who didn’t understand the cultural differences between my
peers and myself. Did I belong there? Nevertheless, I became an extremely
introverted and reserved schoolgirl and continuously kept my opinions and
thoughts to myself whenever I would experience a cultural difference between
myself and a peer and even sometimes a teacher during class time. From this
moment I began to feel like I had to negotiate between two worlds: home and
school.
For example, growing up, my
family and I attended weekly Sunday mass and my parents have continuously
taught me to do the sign of the cross before I eat a meal. I recall performing the sign of the cross
before I ate at every recess and lunch during high school, and peers would
constantly question why I do it every time I would eat. I would explain that it
was something that I had solely grown up doing and so it had become apart of my
everyday routine. But the endless comments and lack of understanding continued
and in turn drove me to question myself. Why I am the only person that
does it? I believe this demonstrates that
sometimes, the way to behave at home or school may conflict so the student or
even teacher, must choose which norm or custom to follow. This illustrates the
notion of biculturalism.
References
Boyd,
R. Pudsey, J. Wadham, B. (2007). Culture and Education. Sydney: Pearson Education
Australia. Chapter 1: What is culture?
Ho, C.
(2011). Respecting the presence of others: School micropublics and everyday
multiculturalism. Journal of Intercultural Studies.
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